Where Truth Takes Shape

Thoughtfully crafted resources to help you understand yourself and your relationships more clearly

The Aletheia Library is a curated collection of psychologist-led resources designed to support reflection, emotional clarity and relational growth.

These materials are not quick fixes.
They are invitations to slow down, look honestly, and reconnect with what matters at your own pace.

Each resource builds on the same foundation as Aletheia’s coaching work:
evidence-informed, deeply human, and grounded in compassion.

Available to clients across the Netherlands, including Utrecht, Amsterdam, Amersfoort and The Hague.

What you'll find here

Inside the library, you’ll find:

  • guided reflections rooted in psychological insight

  • practical tools you can return to over time

  • language for experiences that are often hard to name

  • resources for individuals, couples and families

Whether you’re at the beginning of your journey or already engaged in deeper work, these resources are here to support you gently.

Why you keep loving someone who pulls away

A psychologist-led guide exploring the pursuer–distancer pattern in romantic relationships.
This resource helps you recognise familiar dynamics, understand where they come from, and gently open the door to different ways of relating.

Boundaries Without Guilt

Learning to say no without losing connection. Learn why setting boundaries feels so difficult and how to do it without guilt or emotional distance.
This psychologist-led guide helps you understand people-pleasing patterns and protect your needs with clarity and care. Rooted in attachment theory, it offers practical insight alongside a complimentary reflective workbook. A powerful starting point for healthier, more balanced relationships.

Breaking Family Patterns — Without Blame

Learning to say no without losing connection. Learn why setting boundaries feels so difficult and how to do it without guilt or emotional distance.
This psychologist-led guide helps you understand people-pleasing patterns and protect your needs with clarity and care. Rooted in attachment theory, it offers practical insight alongside a complimentary reflective workbook. A powerful starting point for healthier, more balanced relationships.

Why you keep loving someone who pulls away

A psychologist-led guide exploring the pursuer–distancer pattern in romantic relationships.
This resource helps you recognise familiar dynamics, understand where they come from, and gently open the door to different ways of relating.

Boundaries Without Guilt

Learning to say no without losing connection. Learn why setting boundaries feels so difficult and how to do it without guilt or emotional distance.
This psychologist-led guide helps you understand people-pleasing patterns and protect your needs with clarity and care. Rooted in attachment theory, it offers practical insight alongside a complimentary reflective workbook. A powerful starting point for healthier, more balanced relationships.

Breaking Family Patterns — Without Blame

Learning to say no without losing connection. Learn why setting boundaries feels so difficult and how to do it without guilt or emotional distance.
This psychologist-led guide helps you understand people-pleasing patterns and protect your needs with clarity and care. Rooted in attachment theory, it offers practical insight alongside a complimentary reflective workbook. A powerful starting point for healthier, more balanced relationships.